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THE IMPORTANCE OF PEER MENTORS FOR YOUNG PEOPLE LIVING WITH HIV.

6/28/2017

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Finding out you are HIV+ and coming to terms with that requires a lot of support, both from your medical team and family and friends. With myths, stigma and discrimination that still exists within the community it can be difficult to know who to trust, as Musamba, aged 22, found out:

"lIFE ISN'T ALWAYS ABOUT YOUR WANTS AND NEEDS, BUT WHAT THE COMMUNITIES NEEDS - LIKE MORE HIV+ ROLE-MODELS"

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"When i first found out I was HIV+ I got a lot of support from my family. My dad is a counselor so was incredibly supportive and my younger sister has been very encouraging with medicine and supporting my journey. 

I knew it was important to build a support network so I tried to share my status with some people I thought I trusted and  I was close to at the time. I realized they weren't great friends when they decided to stay away from me and spread rumors around about how I had become infected. 
"Because of the stigma I faced from others I also started to self stigmatize. If I saw people laughing I would think it was about me,  I withdrew from my friends, became very depressed, I used to cry a lot and and at my darkest moments even tried to kill myself. 

Then one day when I was at college I was reunited with my cousin who had been living with HIV since birth. She is also blind as suffered with meningitis as a child. She was living so healthily and openly - talking about HIV had lightened the load for her. 

"IN ORDER FOR YOU TO ACCEPT A SITUATION YOU NEED TO FORGIVE YOURSELF AND THEN OTHERS"


"She told me that sharing her status had inspired her to help others. She basically became my mentor. Having someone showing you they can live healthily and guide you on how to live healthily is so important. 

So I started coming to TTF more and meeting more people living with HIV. One day I was approached about sharing my story on the radio. I decided that if I wanted to help others then this was the right avenue. So on 30th June 2013, I disclosed my status on the local radio station. 

Then after that I started working with a local organisation called Family Health Trust, sharing my story in schools and raising awareness of HIV. A lot of the time when I share my story people cry, as they have lost family and friends due to HIV. 

"Many people in rural communities don't believe HIV is real. And we try to break down some of the myths and misconceptions. Explaining about mother to child transmission, the importance of contraception when having sex and living your own life is important messaging. People are so concerned with what others think about them that they don't protect themselves through contraception or medication. 

Now, before I share my status with friends, I ask them about what they know about HIV, how they would feel if they knew someone who was living with HIV. I try and share with them stories of people living healthily with HIV for a long time. And share the difference between HIV and AIDS. I try and make people think about life from someone else's point of view. 

"LIVING WITH HIV YOU CAN OFTEN STIGMATIZE YOURSELF, REMOVING YOURSELF FROM RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE OF FEAR, BUT WHEN YOU HAVE A MENTOR IT CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING."


"I am always trying to educate people on HIV . People dont believe having a healthy baby when you are HIV+ is possible or that you can have sex with your partner without infecting them with HIV. All of these things are wrong. Young people dont listen to older people when they talk about HIV but peer educating works as you are at the same level, you can impart knowledge and bring about change. 

Life isnt about your wants and needs but what the community needs, which is more HIV+ role models for children and adolescents. People don't like talking about sex, but they want to experiment. If we allow the current taboos and beliefs to continue then more people will become infected. 

"More people need to come forward and talk about HIV, and encourage young people to talk about HIV. We need to be addressing issues of younger girls having sex with older men and empowering them to use contraception.

We need more community leaders, and parents to acknowledge risky behaviors which are taking place and support their children in making the right decisions. 

I often encourage my friends to get tested for HIV and will go with them to support them. Then if the test is positive I will encourage them to start treatment, seek support and when they are ready I encourage them to learn more about HIV and  become peer mentors. To support more people in living healthily is the only way to eradicate HIV." 

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WE NEED YOUR HELP IN SUPPORTING VULNERABLE TEENAGERS ACCESSING CARE AND TREATMENT

6/27/2017

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The staff and board at Tiny Tim & Friends are committed to continuing our work and developing programs to support even more HIV+ children and adolescents live healthy, positive lives. Our donors and supporters have enabled TTF to pilot many new interventions over the years which have allowed us to change the lives of thousands of HIV+ individuals. WE CONTINUE TO NEED YOUR SUPPORT IN CHANGING LIVES. 

Adolescent girls are twice as likely to get infected with HIV as their male counterparts. And many adolescents do not feel empowered to access contraception, do not feel empowered to ask their partner to wear use condoms, or do not know where to access contraception from in order to protect themselves from infection. ​

When some of our adolescent peer mentors came to us recently to suggest setting up youth friendly services at the TTF Clinic, we were excited to hear about their ideas.  Our aim is to support them to develop a youth focused project which could not only help us in retaining our existing adolescent patients into treatment but in identifying new patients to reach out to and providing a safe space for young people to come and access information and services.  

IT COSTS LESS THAN $7,000 TO SET UP AND RUN OUR YOUTH FRIENDLY SERVICE FOR 6 MONTHS. 

Building trust through games
Sharing stories and experiences
The purpose of the youth friendly center would be to provide youth led HIV testing, counselling, sexual reproductive health information, access to condoms and referral services for those in need of HIV treatment, or other health and counselling services. ​ We would also run community based outreach services, led by our teen mentors and youth counselors, with the purpose of encouraging HIV testing in the community around the TTF Clinic and to encourage individuals to come to the clinic for testing and information services. 

Finally the youth groups want to establish chess clubs, sports teams and activity groups to provide a much needed distraction from some of the vices, such as alcohol and drug abuse,  which are too easily accessible to the vulnerable populations we work with. ​
Adolescents at a teen support group
One of our peer mentors with children at the clinic
We are more than confident that with the right funding, and guidance from the TTF management and social work teams our peer mentors can set up services which supports adolescents in: 
  • Understanding the importance of treatment and taking medication.  
  • Attending their appointments at the TTF Clinic.
  • Accessing information on HIV, Sexual reproductive health, contraception, and counselling services.
  • Accessing HIV testing in a youth friendly environment where they feel comfortable with their peers.  
  • Breaking down some of the myths and stigma around HIV which prevents people from accessing testing. 
  • Achieving viral suppression so if/ when they become sexually active their risk of transmission is reduced to zero.
  • Finding a safe space where they can form sports teams, chess clubs or other groups to provide 

BUT WE NEED YOUR SUPPORT. IT WOULD COST US LESS THAN $7,000 TO ESTABLISH AND RUN OUR YOUTH FRIENDLY CENTER FOR 6 MONTHS, DURING WHICH TIME THE YOUTH WOULD LOOK TO UNDERTAKE FUNDRAISING ACTIVITIES OF THEIR OWN IN LUSAKA TO SUPPORT THEIR CONTINUED OPERATIONS. PLEASE CONSIDER SUPPORTING OUR WORK BY DONATING TO TTF TODAY!(Please state the purpose of your donation on the donation page) 
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CELEBRATING THE NEXT TINY TIM

6/27/2017

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Dr. Tim had such a great impact on the patients and people that we work with. So when one of our community volunteers gave birth to a little boy the day after Tim passed away last year, she decided to name her new born son Tim, to pay tribute to the work he had done to help her and others living with HIV to healthy lives and have healthy HIV negative children. 
Contridah and little Tim

​"Dr. Tim was a man of action, and I hope for my son to grow up to live up to his namesake."


Contridah has been working as a volunteer with Tiny Tim & Friends since 2009. She works in the community to help identify vulnerable HIV+ children and over the years has personally brought over 130 children to TTF for HIV testing, counselling and, where needed, treatment. 

She came to volunteer with TTF as she heard about our work through one of our community volunteers who lives in the same community as her.

"When I first came to TTF and met Dr. Tim, I was impressed. Dr. Tim was a kind person and there few people who would have done the work that he did. He formed a team so that HIV+ children can be healthy and happy. I was impressed by his work and the work at TTF so wanted to be part of that, so that children who have HIV don't have to suffer."

Along with several other community volunteers, Contridah was trained by TTF to identify individuals who were sick or at risk of HIV infection, and to encourage them to access testing and treatment. By talking positively about her own status she has been able to interact with individuals in the community who would not have otherwise accessed services. 

"I try and help people realize that going to the clinic is better. I can explain how the medicine works and can help people come to terms with their status. By starting on medication you can be fit and lead a normal life. Thanks to the medicine I have been able to have two HIV negative children.

"I have always been encouraged by Tim's work, he was a man of action, and I hope for my son to grow up to live up to the name. I would love for my son to help people in the community, like Dr. Tim did. And to help people not to feel alone". 

Little Tim at work in the office
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COMING TOGETHER TO SUPPORT CHILDREN LIVING HEALTHILY

6/22/2017

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Clevis at the begining of the program and at month 3
In 2016 TTF ran a Crowd Funding campaign through Caring Crowd to support 50 of the most malnourished patients at Tiny Tim & Friends. Thanks to the support of 79 donors who came together to support our cause, and to Johnson & Johnson who matched every donation, we were successful in reaching our goal. 

So in early 2017 we spent time undertaking home visits, to understand the needs of our patients, and identifying those most in need of nutritional support. Finding 25 children and adolescents who were eligible was sadly not difficult. 

Many of the children were so malnourished and underweight they were suffering with opportunistic infections and alongside nutritional support also required supervised palliative care to help them get well. 
Families receiving food
Patient having their vitals taken
Supporting families with nutritional food packages is easy. But ensuring the children we are supporting are gaining weight and getting healthy is much more complex, involving regular counselling, home assessments, medical interventions and sometimes palliative care. 

Thanks to the support of 79 donors through CaringCrowd and from the hard work of our counsellors all of the  children gained weight, including one child who gained a massive 9kgs.  Stay posted for further stories of each of these children but in the meantime we hope you enjoy seeing the pictures of just a few of the children you have changed the lives of. 
Rachel who gained over 2kgs.
Francis was able to gain over 6kgs with your donations.

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